Chill metal spoons in the freezer for a couple of hours and then glide them over each other's skin. Place them against his lips, drag them down his throat and across his nipples and abs, and swirl them over his genitals and inner thighs, all the way down to his toes.
AN ELECTRIC TOOTHBRUSH
Wash the base with soap and warm water, and then have him gently insert it inside of you. It gives you nice, buzzy vibrations.
A COMB AND HAIRBRUSH
Who knew your styling tools had a sensual split-personality? Run a comb or a soft bristle brush over his butt cheeks, or use the flat side of your brush like a paddle.
Slip on a pair of leather or fuzzy cashmere gloves — or even better, one of each. During sex, stroke his back and chest, run your fingers through his hair, or playfully swat his butt.
A FEATHER DUSTER
If you have an unused duster in your closet, it feels amazing to tickle each other's skin with it. The ultra-light stroke is a tease because it turns you on without giving enough pressure to tip over the edge — so it really heightens the anticipation.
If your guy wears a tie to work, grab the end of it, pull him in towards you for a kiss, and undo it while you're making out. Then wrap it around his eyes. (Hint: Secure the knot on the side of his head rather than the back, so that he can lay his head down comfortably.) By restricting his sense of sight, everything else you say and do to him will be intensified. And if he's not the tie type, a scarf works just as well.
Curious about dipping your toe intosome S&M lite? Try pinching each other's nipples with clothespins. Go slow and start by using them for just a second or two, since some people are more sensitive than others in this area. When you release them, blood will rush back into your bull's-eyes, yielding an intense sensation.
Remove the attachment so it's just a plain hose. While you're wearing your underwear, have him turn it on low and hold it over your clitoris for a sexy sucking sensation. If the sensation is too much (or your vacuum has serious sucking power), have him hold it an inch above your underwear.
A MAKEUP BRUSH
Swirl the smooth, silky bristles across his chest over his V-zone. For a sweet treat, use it to paint his body with chocolate sauce.
Roll it across his lower abs and inner thighs, giving him a gentle massage. Then coil it around his penis, and roll up and down.
Prop one below your butt before sex to let him enter you more deeply. Or stack several couch pillows under your chest and hug them during doggy style for a completely different sensation. You can also position them so that they'll press against your clitoris to get an added sexy surge.
Pop a breath mint in your mouth before you go down on him to give him a tingly effect.
A belt makes better DIY handcuffs than a scarf or tie (the knots can tighten around your guy's hands when he's moving around and could actually cause nerve damage). Wrap it around his wrists a few times, or use two of them to secure him to the bedposts.
Take a sip of tea, run an ice cube down his spine, and follow the trail of ice with your hot tongue.
Place a towel under your hips, and have him hold onto either end of it during doggy style sex. He can pull on the ends of the towel to draw your body closer to him.